How can I forgive when I’ve been hurt so badly?
Divorce is culmination of doing and saying mean, thoughtless and even hateful things over a period of time. Barbs have been slung from both the husband and the wife. Fault-finding with the other is often a full-time job as the marriage disintegrates. Finding your wife or husbands’ vulnerable soft-spot and then going in with a zinger is rationalized. A “he/she deserved it” mentality takes over. Any possibility for civil discussion about opposing viewpoints goes out the window. After we inflict damage, we feel justified in our attacks. So we pound on, tear and…